In a nutshell, there was somebody I was interested in (he also showed signs that he was also interested) a while back (almost 6 months) at the gym where I work out. I have not seen him for that period as he had left the gym (I did not know he was going to leave), so I thought that was that. The very last time I saw him I was leaving the gym and he was ahead of me on the escalator, he kept on looking back at me when I was going down. Then he stopped for a while at the bottom until I was almost down, and then he suddenly walked off. I got the impression that he wanted to approach but then chickened out.
Recently, I happen to find out his phone no. from a friend who worked out with him briefly for a few sessions (he's a trainer).
Should I call him, and what should I say? I could pretend to be interested in a training session and ask where he works now? The only thing I'm scared of is that if he doesn't train anymore then it'll be hard to find out where he works unless I come completely clean and tell him who I am (dunno if he remembers me, though I think he does. We have never spoken, just played a lot of eye tennis). I was thinking in that case, I would just ask him straight out.
But I just wanna know, is this *really* weird?? What would you do if you were me? We were pratically strangers before, and it has been a while.
Does anyone have any ideas for me on what to say etc. Somehow I feel that I only have one shot at this and if I don't get it right then I'd look like a stalker if I have to call him again and change my story...Guys, would you get freaked out if some stranger from like half a year ago calls suddenly to ask you out? Aarrghh! I need to know what the best form of action is.
Thnx in advance for any ideas!!