My boyfriend has just told me that he doesn't think we are right for each other. I was very confused because I didn't know why he was saying this. He told me that we hadn't been talking about the serious things enough (e.g. moving in together, not talking about our feelings enough), but I don't think this is a valid enough reason why we should split up. We have been together for 17 months. He has epilepsy and it is getting worse. His epilepsy is resistant to medication, so he is currently waiting for an EEG scan to see if he can have surgery and he did say to me that he may never get better and in the future I may have to become his carer. Becoming his carer does not bother me at all, I love him and want to be with him no matter what. I get the feeling that he thinks that I'm not going to be able to support him and have time for him, and that I'm not going to be able to cope with his epilepsy. However, I have been with him this long and if I couldn't cope then I would have left the relationship a long time ago. I am currently studying at university and he is not doing anything because he just wants to focus on his health. We had been so happy before he told me that we shouldn't be together. He said that he had been thinking about it for some time, but he should have spoken to me about it sooner. It is all one sided and he hasn't let me have a say. I really don't know what to do. I know that we are meant to be together, we have been through so much and have always came out strong. I just don't know what to say to him to make him listen to me and believe me when i say that I don't want us to be apart and that I will always be there for him. He told me that he's in love with me and doesn't want to be apart from. I just think that if there is enough love in the relationship, then that is enough to be able to make the relationship work, no matter how tough times get. I know this is a difficult situation, but I would really appreciate some feedback right now please. Thank you.