New Relationship, concerned with a change in behaviour, worried I'm overthinking.

[Serenabanana]

First off, hello! I'm Serena

I've come here because I've been seeing a guy and I am really confused the background is as follows:

We met on a dating app called Tinder and really hit it off. We messaged everyday for about a month, moving from Tinder to Snapchat to texts and calls. He lives an hour away, and arranged for him to come visit one Friday. He came over, we went on a night out and it was great!

The following week, however, it felt that his texts etc changed a bit. He wasn't so... Cute maybe with what he was saying, would take longer to reply. We'd both still initiate contact so it wasn't one sided in that respect. I asked him when he was coming down next and we arranged to meet again the following Friday. We went for dinner, came home and watched a movie, once again, awesome.

The next week I felt again that maybe the texts weren't quite as cute. We were both busy the following weekend and didn't meet up. That brings us to this week! Again I feel he's taking longer to reply, and maybe not as affectionate in his texts. We still talk everyday, and on Wednesday I asked when he's going to come see me again, to which he replied Friday, so I should be seeing him later.

So what's my worry? Basically I just feel since we've met he's maybe taken a step back emotionally. It's awesome when we are together, but most of our time is spent apart. I guess what I'm wondering, is whether I'm reading too much into his slow replies or text content? We haven't discussed whether we're exclusive or anything, and I'm not sure if I should just wait and see if he mentions it, or raise the topic myself.

Any advice is appreciated, and thanks so much in advance

Xx

[lost_man]

FYI we don't know what he is thinking either. I suggest taking your time as it's only been 4 meetings, and dating other people until it crystallises as to whether you are both into it or not.