Hi Guys,
I've got a question. Perhaps you can give some advice. A guy has given me flowers on several occasions. I do not know him but I see him once a week. Well, I told him not to give me flowers because he was married and I felt it was inappropriate. He stopped and then started again. So I called him and asked why and he said he was just trying to be nice. I asked him if it was not better to meet and talk instead (he is getting a divorce now), but he said it was not necessary.
What should I think? Is he shy or what is he doing? Many thanks for your advice!
Jackie
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23-04-09, 06:47 AM #1
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Why flowers?
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23-04-09, 07:14 AM #2
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OMG, are you a troll?
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23-04-09, 07:18 AM #3
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What? What do you mean?
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23-04-09, 07:19 AM #4
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what does it have to do with flowers?
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23-04-09, 07:22 AM #5
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No, no I was asking why he gives flowers over and over if he does not want to meet. I find it strange. Any idea?
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23-04-09, 07:25 AM #6
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then you are leaving too much info. have you ever met him?
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23-04-09, 07:50 AM #7
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No, not really, I told him we could meet, but I don't know if he is just shy or if he doesn't want to meet.
I have never been in this type of situation before. I simply don't understand the point of giving flowers all the time if you don't want to talk.
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23-04-09, 07:53 AM #8
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do yourself a favor and forget about him.
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23-04-09, 07:58 AM #9
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Good point. I wish I could, but I see him every week.
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23-04-09, 08:03 AM #10
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you never met him but you see him every week?
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23-04-09, 08:03 AM #11
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do you see him on TV?
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23-04-09, 08:07 AM #12
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Yes, since a long time. It's complicated to explain but yes we see each other every week, but have never met in person.
he is a performer and we see each other but I cannot talk to him. Every week he throws me flowers from the stage and I was tired of it and called him to stop it, he did and started again.Last edited by jackie_s; 23-04-09 at 08:10 AM.
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23-04-09, 08:14 AM #13
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LOL! Flowers from the stage.
Next time, turn away as he throws one & let it drop to the floor. If you really want to make your point, look him in the eye and crush it slowly with your heel.Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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23-04-09, 08:16 AM #14
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Yeah, I know but I still fail to see the point in doing it over and over again.
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23-04-09, 08:18 AM #15
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Some people are stupid and can't take a hint? That's strike two for this guy, even if he wasn't a married jerk.
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