Heya.
So me and my girlfriend have manual sex quite a lot. We usually lie in bed together, I finger her and she jerks me off. Its great and tbh I am confident we both really enjoy it. We have had sex, but we both really enjoy doing this together and its a lot less effort for when we're too tired to have actual intercourse.
Anyway, I have a question. Basically we can be doing it from anywhere between 10 minutes to an hour. Its great and we both talk about how great it is. She moans a lot and I'm confident she enjoys it. However my question is, after a while - especially after I go really fast on her clitoris - she says she goes "sensitive" after a lot of moaning and etc. She doesn't seem to enjoy when I mess with her g-spot so in general I stay on her clit unless she asks me to go deeper, just to clarify. She's new to it so I guess that may or may not change in the future.
Either way, I am confident she really enjoys it but I'm not sure if she actually has an orgasm or not. Sometimes she breaths really fast and moans a lot, saying a lot of dirty stuff before she asks me to stop as she's sensitive. I understand orgasm is a lot different for women so I just wanted to ask, do you think she has an orgasm or not? She sometimes gets this when I lick her out as well if that helps.