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    how can I get her to want to talk more?

    This girl and I have texted a lot, she kinda likes me and has for a long time. WE have now fallen into the habit of texting for a bit and then taking a break throughout the day. She says she enjoys it cause she gets 'me' time and makes talking more fun. Yesterday was a bad day, she was tired and I was tired but we pushed through a texted most the day. Today we texted a few in the morning then I picked it back up around 10:30 and it lastest about an hour. This is how I ended the convo:

    'Do you think its worth trying to talk? I honestly don't mind, I just don't want to be annoying.' - Me
    'Maybe later when I'm not lazy' - Her
    'hmm OK, I'm looking forward to it . Should I wait for your text or just wait a few hours?' - Me
    'Just text in a few hours' - Her

    Did I make a mistake in how I ended that conversation? Its how most of them end up anyways though.

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    Does this girl live nearby? If so why can't you just see her in person? Then all this texting will not be necessary.

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    We are seperated by 200 or so miles unfortunately or this wouldn't be a problem at all.

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    So what is the point of all this? Unless of course the distance between you two will shortly become significantly less than 200 miles.

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    During college we will be within like 100 feet since we would be in dorms and if not that then at least a mile.

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