active & fun sex life BUT why is porn still an issue

[LOVE_CONFUSED]

Hi All,

I have asked about porn issue before but I feel that now things are advancing and getting very interesting and exciting between me and my other half I feel that i have to ask this question.

Me and my partner have started to steam things up where our sex lives are concerned, we've recently started exploring bondage, we've brought more sex toys are are getting into role plays too. To say our sex is good is an understatement.

However, I still have this issue re porn. I look at it, so does he. We watch it together, not full vids but stuff on the internet to get us in the mood, we do things like this throughout the night and we have fun whilst doing it. I know he looks at porn, he knows I do, and he doesnt mind that I watch it. He even knows that I pleasure myself when the need arises when he's not home, again, he doesnt mind (well he doesnt show he minds, and tells me it doesnt bother him) But the thought of him doing it and watching it when im not around upsets me to some degree. I dont understand why I am being like this.

Please, any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

[Boisdevie]

You are equating him watching porn with 'he likes porn more than he likes me' - you are wrong in this - are you a little insecure? I love my GF. I also watch porn. The two things are separate.

[LOVE_CONFUSED]

I am a little insecure yes, I think i put it down to us having a rough 12 months and assume that when he watches porn its because I dont do it for him. I know I'm sexually attracted to him more than I've ever been to anyone and I still watch porn with and without him but for some reason i've got this part of me that thinks when he does it its because he doesnt want me or my body.