Never had a girlfriend, Am I ugly? [pic]

[bazM]

I am 21 (22 in 3 months) and I'v never had a girlfriend.

Im short for a guy and I know woman like tall men. I'm quite skinny (skinny enough that I want to put weight on). I'm quite shy aswell. I have dated only a couple of girls in my life in which it has never quite worked out.

Woman never seem to really show any interest in me and its affecting my self confidence. I don't feel worthy to woman anymore and im constantly saying to myself she could get someone nicer looking.

[vashti]

You aren't ugly, and that isn't your problem. Insecurity is.

[trisha]

you're not ugly,it's just the attitude that you need to change...be confident and you'll see the difference....

[Linli]

You have an accent. Move to North America. Solution found .
But, on a serious note, you're not ugly. Cute, actually. I think everything else I would say has been said above.

[IncognitoSir]

Dude, Im not even gonna look at your picture because I've been around long enough (24 years old) to know that its not about looks bro. Its about how you carry yourself. Women are a lot deeper than "how you look". No lady wants a insecure guy, carry yourself as if you're worth being with. The ladies love a guy who stands tall and is on top of his game. The best way to do that is to be yourself, but you have to be ok with being yourself. You need to take some time out for self man, I've been there, it wasnt easy, took a lot of self examination on my part but ultimately I emerged physically, emotionally and spritually healthier and confident. The ladies quickly took notice to this! My gf is drop dead gorgeous.......Im no male model, just a guy who knows what he wants and I act accordingly. Hope this help my man! Gluck!

[bazM]

I honestly don't know whats wrong with me. I have a good job, a nice car (BMW). Got a degree and I'd like to think of myself as a nice person. I always put others ahead of my own but sometimes i think thats whats got me to where I am just now. No self confidence in myself when I always said other people deserve it before me. I'm such a failure when it comes to woman. I'v started writing a book about my life, 3000 words soo far. Mainly its about being lonely. I do actually feel extremely lonely and I know that EVERYTHING in life is in the head. Its all in my head and i need to start thinking more positively. I'll admit im not a confident person. How do you get that confidence? Its difficult

My biggest fear in life is that I'll never fall in love. Its so scary to think thats a possibility.

[Bumble_bee]

you have posted before right?

like everyone says, you need to work on the inside and stop looking at whats on the outside for a while.do things that will boost your self-esteem, do it for you.

[Primo]

<< ahem >> what vashti and trisha meant to say was that you're looks are fine :-)

You're probably not going to get any taller, why don't you hit the gym and put on some weight if that's what you want? It sounds like you're just beating yourself up instead of focusing on the positive.

You've described yourself as educated, considerate and in general a helluva nice guy :-) Newsflash.....alot of women are looking for you.....so stop looking down at the cracks in the sidewalk and pay attention ;-)

[bazM]

I have been going to the gym recently. I find it helps to stop me thinking about negative stuff when the ardrenaline is flowing.

I shouldnt be thinking about this all the time. When i was at college, uni. I never gave a crap about woman. But now that Iv got everything I need from life apart from one thing...I just keep thinking about that one thing. Its the missing jigzaw puzzle in my life to be honesy. Its like im fighting a battle of trying to stop thinking about it. Im working on it though (the writing, the gym etc)

[Bumble_bee]

I have been going to the gym recently. I find it helps to stop be thinking about negative stuff when the ardrenaline is flowing.

I shouldnt be thinking about this all the time. When i was at college, uni. I never gave a crap about woman. But now that Iv got everything I need from life apart from one thing...I just keep thinking about that one thing. Its the missing jigzaw puzzle in my life yo be honesy.

take action, stop thinking....going to the gym is great, what about socialising, talking to girls with the complete knowledge that you might be rejected, it might also be good for you because the reality is that this is just the beginning of it when it comes to finding someone..... if you don't pull yourself together you're not going to be able to deal with the knockbacks the dating game has...it's a mine field....

[Primo]

Let go of the OCD when it comes to life baz. Things happen in their own time for a reason. Btw, it's better to find a cutie who's a perfect piece to the puzzle that's life, not one that's a whole damn puzzle ! :-D

[Primo]

I think baz needs to approach you BB, it's fixing 2 things with one charming wink :-D

[bloodtippedrose]

You have an accent. Move to North America. Solution found .

Sooooooooo true.

you seem like a normal guy. insecurity would make you unattractive as stated a million times above. You have nice skin and nice eyes etc sayin youre a nice and probably romantic guy if you were given the chance. Thats enough for me to think about dating you.
but heres the thing, British accents are cute and sexy. Add a British accent to anyone and they instantly sound twice as smart. Brains are hot.

come over here, stay for awhile, youll get a girlfriend no doubt.

[rateyes]

Dude, Im not even gonna look at your picture because I've been around long enough (24 years old) to know that its not about looks bro. Its about how you carry yourself. Women are a lot deeper than "how you look". No lady wants a insecure guy, carry yourself as if you're worth being with. The ladies love a guy who stands tall and is on top of his game. The best way to do that is to be yourself, but you have to be ok with being yourself. You need to take some time out for self man, I've been there, it wasnt easy, took a lot of self examination on my part but ultimately I emerged physically, emotionally and spritually healthier and confident. The ladies quickly took notice to this! My gf is drop dead gorgeous.......Im no male model, just a guy who knows what he wants and I act accordingly. Hope this help my man! Gluck!

i laughed

if you think your ugly, they will, if you think your the shit, they will to.

[Primo]

if you think your ugly, they will, if you think your the shit, they will to.

That's almost Shakespearean rat