I don't feel ok about this

[geminimoongal]

I am in a LDR for 6 months now. He emails every day and we skype. He doesn't communicate his feelings very well .
I met him in a game room and 3 months ago we had a tiff so did not talk for a while until he contacted me. Anyway a guy started talking to me with another name and I felt it could be him so I played along with it for a while. (nothing sexual) suddenly the guy disappeared and 2days later my guy contacted me.
I decided to tell him yesterday that I was talking to another guy in the hope it was him. I thought if it was him then he would realize I only did it because I wanted it to be him, and perhaps talk to me more.
I got an email saying he would like to suck my p....y and I am hot. I don't know what to make of it. All I know is that I feel upset. What should I do. I want to ignore him for a couple days and see what happens. We are both in our fourties.

Anyone who does not agree with LDR please don't reply otherwise I would appreciate any advice.
Thanks

[Boisdevie]

Anyone who does not agree with LDR please don't reply otherwise I would appreciate any advice.

You're making this hard for us dear so I have a brilliant idea. You tell us what advice you'd like to hear and we'll do our best to give you that advice.

OH, have you actuallly met the LDR guy?

[surfhb]

Exactly! If youre looking for the advice you just want to hear....why ask?

[Boisdevie]

I got an email saying he would like to suck my p....y and I am hot. I don't know what to make of it.

Clearly the guy is not that intelligent or very good in the sack. You don't suck a pussy, you lick it. Any idiot, even me, knows that.