Threesome?

[Melinda01]

Hello people,

Recently I've been involved with a guy only for sex, we are f***buddies and we enjoy having sex every now and then.

Neither him or I want something more serious out of this so we are happy with the situation.

However, sometimes I don't know how he's thinking. He wants to have a threesome (I have never had before) but not with another female. He wants to have a threesome 2 guys and me. From our "sex" discussion we've had he's been telling me how horny he's gonna be when he'll see me receiving sex from another guy and then he can join. Sometimes he mentions about another female but he doesn't seem that interested in this as much as for the 2 guys 1 girl.

I've heard about guys having the fantasy of two girls and one guy. And I can understand this. But I haven't really heard that much about men wanting 2 guys and 1 girl. But maybe you people can help me out with this? How can he be thinking about it??

[Gribble]

He's super gay.

[Melinda01]

Haha! Is he??
I have actually no idea if he's or not, you see we never sit and discuss about anything else than sex. The only thing I know is from his blog that he's been interested only in girls...

But yeah, i don't know the reality of things, that's for sure! It has cross my mind...

[Gigabitch]

Really? You've never heard of a gang rape fantasy?

[Melinda01]

No I've never heard it....and what is it about?? "Rape"?? omg..

[Asip4u]

Melinda, some guys fantasize about all kinds of stuff. In this case, his turn on is seeing you with multiple guys. You have to decide whether you're comfortable with that or not.

No I've never heard it....and what is it about?? "Rape"?? omg..

[Countrygirl]

Some guys find it rather a turn on to watch their girlfriend having sex with another male.... why? ..... I really dont know, because if you truely love someone surely you want them for yourself and the thought of some other guy enjoying the pleasure is beyond me!

I personally dont think he is gay..... he just wants to see you being F*&$ed by another guy! Dont allow him to take your self respect away hun and tell him its just you and him or nothing!

[Sor]

He's not gay, he just wants a live porn "video" to watch and do what you cannot do when he's watching it on a screen... = participate. I'm guessing he occupied himself with porn videos a bit too much in his youth hence the fantasy now.

[Yggdrasil]

Hello people,

Recently I've been involved with a guy only for sex, we are f***buddies and we enjoy having sex every now and then.

Neither him or I want something more serious out of this so we are happy with the situation.

However, sometimes I don't know how he's thinking. He wants to have a threesome (I have never had before) but not with another female. He wants to have a threesome 2 guys and me. From our "sex" discussion we've had he's been telling me how horny he's gonna be when he'll see me receiving sex from another guy and then he can join. Sometimes he mentions about another female but he doesn't seem that interested in this as much as for the 2 guys 1 girl.

I've heard about guys having the fantasy of two girls and one guy. And I can understand this. But I haven't really heard that much about men wanting 2 guys and 1 girl. But maybe you people can help me out with this? How can he be thinking about it??

[url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Threesome[/url]

[misombra]

i'm jealous.

[NeoSeminole]

the guy wants to see you get off so that he, in turn, will get off.

[Melinda01]

I think I have a clearer picture now. he was telling me that he would like seeing me having sex with another man. But it's just that it's hard to understand it since I would never be turned on seeing him having sex with another woman...

[Yggdrasil]

I think I have a clearer picture now. he was telling me that he would like seeing me having sex with another man. But it's just that it's hard to understand it since I would never be turned on seeing him having sex with another woman...

When it comes to sex (and other things):

Rule #1 don't do anything you don't want to do or don't feel ok with;
Rule #2 don't let anybody force you into doing something you don't want to do or don't feel ok with;
Rule #3 if someone attempts to make you do something against your will, get rid of the control freak asap.

Remember: forcing sex (having sex against your will and without your consent) is rape and as such punishable by law, no matter what twist someone tries to give it or which excuses they make or justifications they find.

[doppelgaenger]

It's got nothing to do with homosexuality, unless he wants to suck the guy's dick or something. It's a bit of voyeurism.

[Gigabitch]

He wants the thrill of being violated, maybe. He, himself doesn't want to be dominated by another guy, but having another guy **** "his" girl is crossing a boundary, for sure. This isn't all that rare, and yes, guys commonly have fantasies about ganging a girl. This doesn't mean they actually intend to rape somebody- it's more about wanting to do what they feel like doing without taking into account all of those emotions and stuff girls are always going on about.

It's a fantasy, get it? It doesn't make him a psycho.

Please remember that our relationship with this guy is NSA, and that means that he's free to be completely inconsiderate about your feelings. You agreed to it. In my opinion, this is incredibly stupid and almost NEVER works out for the girl, but hey, it's your party.