I want to see her for her, not for her body. (Quick question)

[Coldkilla10]

Ok. This is going to sound awkward I'm sure. I just subscribed onto this forum and first of all I'd like to say hey to everyone. Right to the point:

If you like a girl, and you think you would take her over any other girl in a room filled with good looking women all around. You've liked her for years and think she is the one. How can you act better and more direct to this person? Can a man talk to a women without thinking about sex? I ask if a man should masturbate a few hours before talking to the women, so he doesnt think about sex. Or will doing this kill the shy man's drive to get to know the women?

Little weird I know but look at the science involved, not the absurdity of the question. I’m not trying to be sick or anything of the like. I'm just curious.

[pxc]

lol that's a damn good question... I'm listening too.

[Only-virgins]

wait...what?!..whats the question exactly?

[pxc]

lol dammit... I think it was if masturbating before trying to hold conversation with a chick would make you more attentive... if it is, then jacking off is 2x as good...

[Only-virgins]

Haha yea right. Right after?..right after I orgams I feel light headed and thought less. The last thing I would do is listen to un-intersting things. I think being horny forces you to at least pretend like you care what she is saying. I vote for no. Offcourse unless you find her talking interesting in the first place....that does happen doesnt it?

[pxc]

I'spose it does... or you could know her so well that talking with her was like sleepwalking, and then it might be productive to masturbate before talking with her... It'd be like a refreshing nap afterwards... lol.

[Coldkilla10]

What aboot not 'pretending' to listen? This girl you think you could honestly see yourself with, for years to come, this an't no one night stand. Anyways, thanks for the imput. Think I mighta made up my mind

[Cybog]

There is no such thing as "The One".

[whaywardj]

Sure there is. Jet Li.

[shh!]

Who is that?

[Tone]

[Coldkilla10]

huh? Whatever. I don't listen to people who derive from the subject and try to make ya feel down by saying stupid things like there is no 'one' out there. Anyways, thx to the other peoples. And I'll be sure to come back when i have another question or two.. whenever that'll be

[Cybog]

If you don't listen to them, why did you just post what you did?

[Tone]

Cybog actually has a lot more sense than the majority of people on this forum. The best thing about him is he's brutally honest. And his great sense of humor.

[whaywardj]

Coldkilla -- I think you're a certifiable nut case.