Okay so me and boyfriend have been together for about 6 going on 7 months now. We do live together, and I can honestly say that we ARE madly in love with each other BUT since we have been living together I have suddenly noticed some changes as well as he. Now I know that this happens, but to me this is kind of scary seeing we didn't do this before we begin living together. Lately, him and I have been arguing about the smallest things and that ends with an awkward silence and vibe between the both of us. He says that i never want to listen to what he has to say but want him to listen to everything I say. And I say that he does the exact same thing to me but doesn't want to admit to it. He also complains and nags about things that i think just really aren't called for and then when I try to give a solution to the problem he says that I am "doing too much" or being "overly dramatic" about things. Another problem is that at times, I dont like how he addresses me about certain things that bother him and so I tell him that, I wouldn't get so defensive and hostile if he would say in a more suggesting tone instead of sounding as if he's TELLING me what to do.
All in all I am TIRED of all of the small petty arguments that we are having. Because we I KNOW that we are better than this. I would like to know how is it that we can learn to understand, talk and compromise with each other like we used to? And any other advice that can be given.
Thanks for your time