Hi everybody,I just wanted to get some peoples insight on my current situation with my ex. I'll just start off by filling you in with the details of the breakup, I'll try to keep it short. My girlfriend ended things between us about a month ago and it's really been taking a toll on me. We were together for a little over two years and I'd say it was pretty serious until things went south. Issues with her insecurities and neediness started to weigh me down. I got to the point where I built up so much resentment that I just stopped caring. The last few months of the relationship got pretty rocky, to the point where she just gave up. The thing is, we've been talking ever since and she still has pictures of us up on her FB. I know she still loves me and tells me things like "I miss you," and "I promise we will figure it out" and that she's just a wreck from all of it. Things were starting to get better between us, we've been talking everyday through text and sometimes a phone call here and there which was a nice feeling. I've been trying to stay positive about everything, keeping busy and just bettering my life. She sees that finally and I believe she feels guilty for breaking up with me. I was seriously believing that things were really working out between us until yesterday. A good friend of mine broke some unpleasant news to me last night. His girlfriend is friends with my ex so they obviously talk about everything. I came to find out that she's been talking to some other guy that she met through a mutual friend. Same ole story right. I'll give you the details on what was said to me. Quotes like "she's on this guys jock," "he works out," he's everything that I'm not and that I had no goals in life. Pretty cold-blooded if you ask me. And all the while she's still trying Brto make things right between us. I called her out about it last night through a text message. It wasn't a hateful message either because I wanted to be mature about it. The moment after I sent it, she started blowing me up wanting to talk about it, but I didn't want to because I had too much anger and frustration to talk and I didn't want to get into an argument. So I slept on it. 25 text messages and phone calls later, I manned up and called her. We talked about it and she drove to my house to explain to me whats been going on. The rumors were true and she has been talking to someone that she just considers a "friend." They went to the movies together and they've been talking about their breakup. She said he is just a nice person to talk to and that he was in an 11 year relationship ready to be engaged but ended up not working out for him. She also mentioned that she's not looking for a relationship and that she just needs people to talk to and relate to in her life. I feel like she's just talking to this guy as a rebound but I cant say. I don't really know how to handle this situation, we talked for a good two hrs in person this morning and I could tell in her eyes that she was genuine about it and she still wants to work on each other but I just don't know for certain. I don't want to be put on the back burner and have her fall for this guy. I'm just really at a loss right now. No contact is something i've considered but at the same time, I don't want her to think I don't care about her anymore and she moves onto someone else. We came to an agreement that its just best to spend some time apart from each other for a little while to figure things out for ourselves. Well she already cracked by calling me and wanting to talk about "the good times we had?" like why now all of a sudden. Telling me she misses my body, the love-making and craving it?How should I handle this predicament I'm in?? Thanks in advance for any advice, it's much appreciated.