Girl friend says i really hurt her

[ayema]

she says she is hurt and now want to break contact with me.
is there any chance i can get her back?

[vashti]

What did you do?

[HeartIsAching]

Too little information. What were the circumstances?

[KristenElaine]

If she has asked for the break in contact...give it to her. There is something she is unhappy with and she needs time to figure it out. Let her know that you care about her and respect her decision. And move forward with your life. You wont know if there is a chance until there is, or isnt.

[ayema]

sorry guys... i gave no details..

the thing is that we had a fight and i said some really mean things. and she got hurt..
and then some days pass after the fight and we met again... she said then that she still likes me.. and we met after that twice..i thought things are back to normal...

but now she said that she has second thoughts and that she wants little contact... all because i hurt her feelings..

i am going to talk to her over the matter... would that help??
its not that i cheat on her or stuff like that!!

[Mocha_mel]

did you actually mean what you said or was it just a "heat of the moment" thing? If it's the latter, explain to her you really didn't mean what you said and promised her you'd never say it again. If you actually think whatever you said it's true, then I'm afraid maybe you two are not meant for each other.

[ayema]

no it wasnt something i meant... and i told her that already.. and things were quite good the last time we met..
the thing is that we are not in the same city at the moment... when she was here the last time and we met personally things were quite good... we were quite happy spending time together..
but when she goes away.. she has second thoughts and suddenly she is not very sure about us.. what is happening here?

well one thing i have to ask her is that if she is afraid that things might go bad with us again and that she would be hurt again... is it because of this reason that she wants to maintain disance between us!!

[JasonHJJ]

Thanks for your post.