You do everything right, but they still don't love you back.

[2c2bt]

OK.
You're nice.
You're independent.
You spend quality time with the person you love.
Why is it that she has no feelings for me?

[happee]

b/c if the chemistry, the spark, ain't there all that stuff just makes u more "just friends" than anything else...

[leight69]

there is either excitement or there isnt......that's just the way it works.

[Ladies' fan]

Ah my friend...how I sympathise. I was in your position until a few months ago.

It is your very attitude--"getting it all right"--that will make you, and every "nice guy", sexually frustrated for life.

To change your life for the best, you MUST read this site:

[url]www.intellectualwhores.com[/url]

It will open your eyes and you will see what you have been doing wrong.

Never be too nice to a woman; always be a challenge. Be unavailable and be SEXUAL, or you will get the "kiss of death" ("let's just be friends"). By the way, when a woman tells you that, always say "no thanks, I have more female friends than I ever wanted". Seriously, it works.

And I am assuming that by "quality time" you did not mean "sex".

Read my other posts as they all deal with essentialy the same issue: how to avoid becoming a woman's friend, in order to ensure you have a chance with her sexually.

Good luck and keep us posted.

Ladies' fan.

[LINEBACKER _2]

Been there far too many times. I don't know what it is. I always thought that she felt I was unattractive or whatever. Perhaps that was the case.

There has to be a tension there, not necessarily a sexual one, but some sort of spark and it has to reside in both of you, not just one.

Sounds like she's not the one for you man, time to move on. It sucks I know.

LINEBACKER 2

[Illusional]

this is to ladie's fan... wassup with this whore site? i think in every post that i've seen with you, you had this link.. wassup? raverboy

[2c2bt]

Originally posted by Ladies' fan
And I am assuming that by "quality time" you did not mean "sex".

No. I wish.
Not even dates or friends.
Just professional. Sucks.
I think I am a whore.
Sometimes I get so tired of it all.

Thanks for the advice. Nice site.
I can't beleive she has been pimping me all this time.

[TremblingBluSta]

I'm not sure why you think you are being played. Has she been giving indications that there will be more between you? If not, then it's simply that, as others have stated, there is no spark.

Everybody is looking for something different out of a partner. I have several female friends who I feel attraction towards, but would never persue because there is no romantic attraction. Likewise, I have a few female friends who wouldn't mind a relationship with me, whom I would never consider dating.

The very least you can do is find out what the girl you are persuing wants from a guy. If you can't meet her requirements, let her go. Find someone you're right for.

[Ladies' fan]

For raverboy:

You are right, nearly all of my posts involve the [url]www.intellectualwhores.com[/url] site. That is because most posters here are intellectual whores.

I myself learned about that site from this forum, and I have never been the same since.

Ladies' fan.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

After seeing the link posted so many times I decided to finally go and check it out. After reading it some of it made a little sense. But it was nothing mind-altering by any means. It's not really even that clever. Anyone else already has a term for intellectual whores, they're most commonly called "plutonic friends." There's no mystery or secret to it, nor do these women want to whore you for your mind. If you have great conversations but don't peak their sexuality it doesn't make any kind of phenomenon, it just means they aren't turned on by you. The whole site glorifies that into something that may make rejected guys feel better.

[2c2bt]

Just like that site said, I'm her intellectual whore, and she's my intellectual pimp.
I don't know how to get her out of my mind. I think about her so much that I can't even concentrate on reading a decent novel.
I do feel better now that I know I'm a whore.
At least now, I can do something about it, and stop wasting my time with a girl who would rather have some other type of guy than a good person like me.

[Zekk_T_Strife]

[Illusional]

haha my point exactly. raverboy

[2c2bt]

Which point?
You just mentioned that he always puts up the link for the whore site.

[Illusional]

i'm referring to his facial expression. raverboy