Lying

[Kromat]

Why do women have to lie sometimes and don't just be honest?
I'd rather hear the truth than have to think about what is going on.

This has been a terrible week to handle.

1. Friend's mom passes away.
2. Stuck in Traffic for 2-3 hours ( should only be 45 min drive )
3. Received a Failed Exam on the net by 8% ( 75 to pass ),
and had a no show with my supposedly new dance partner.
- I gave my number, but she didn't even call that she couldn't make it.
- I waited for about 40 mins before going inside and had a
drink and just waited for the dancing to start, which I actually enjoyed.
- I even had a girl choose me as her partner, which was rather nice,
since I was going to go look, but didn't really have too.

4. Visiting Funeral Friday & and burial on Saturday for his mom.

P.S. I just feel that I put in the effort with a girl to like me, but no one seems to care how I feel.

I know that I have to stay positive and that things will be good eventually, but If I'm not given
a chance, how am I suppose to make sure something works out when I put in the effort?

Maybe I don't know myself, like other people see me.
Is my time here actually worth it? Am I a good enough person for someone to take a chance on, and see what happens?
It's not like I'm gay, and I know this because I wouldn't have feelings for any woman, If I was.

Maybe I need to take a break and re-evaluate where I want to go with my life.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Im sorry, maybe I didnt read it well, but in your whole post I didnt read about a woman lying.

[Kromat]

Just saying that women are interested in what you have to offer and you treat them nice, by
giving them fun opportunities, and they don't call or say what is really on their mind.

Saying twice that they're going to come yesterday to dance, but not showing up?

I even told her that my dance lessons are next week, and I'm not sure,
If she's even going to show up for those, with this stunt that she pulled.

I gave her directions, teacher's # to get instructions, and the date & time.

P.S. If that happens, I'll just have to dance with my last years partner, which won't be bad,
since she respects me as a person and I can call her up anytime and enjoys talking to me.
* Even returns my calls, if I called her earlier, which is how other women should be like.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

Ok now I understand. Well, its not really worth hurting your head over it especially with other things like a funeral to think about. I'm sorry to hear about your week so far, hopefully things will get better for you.

[Kromat]

I hope so, or else I don't know what I'll have to do.

[Cain]

I hope so, or else I don't know what I'll have to do.

I guess you'll have to kidnap her and make sure that she knows what will happen the next time she misses a dance lesson.

[Kromat]

I haven't even met this woman once yet, so how am I going to do that?
No address, no phone #, all I know is that she lives in Mississauga and name is Caroline...
Damn, that is too much info to work with, let me get the FBI to track her down.

[Cain]

I haven't even met this woman once yet, so how am I going to do that?
No address, no phone #, all I know is that she lives in Mississauga and name is Caroline...
Damn, that is too much info to work with, let me get the FBI to track her down.

It's a good thing you're not a private detective.

[Kromat]

I just want to be happy, and being treated like this doesn't help.

I guess I have to work out harder and look like everyone else out there, because they're the only ones that are given a chance.

I guess personality doesn't matter much, If you don't have the look to back it up.

P.S. Maybe I'll just take a break from here for good, and focus on something else than girls & these forums, since I'm quite disappointed at my situations, and need some time to re-evaluate.

[DoesntMatter]

The only people who should really be lied to regularly are the police (thugs) and your captors if you are a hostage!

[Gigabitch]

Lying pisses me off, especially because it's usually unnecessary. It's a red flag that belies a possibly flawed character.

I guess you should appreciate the fact that Caroline is being so obvious about the fact that she's unreliable. This way, you can never be truly disappointed with her because you'll never rely on her in the first place.