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    Advice Needed

    Hi all. Need some of your constructive views on this dilemma that i'm facing right now.

    First off, i've been with my GF for the past 4 years now. Couple of months back, I was at one of my customer's place and got to know this girl there. Started talking over the phone. We met for lunch once in a while and i used to call her in her office everyday. She has a BF for the past 1-half years now. Now i'm totally into her.

    She knows i like her, coz i told her (duh). I asked her how she feels about me, but she doesnt wanna say. I call her everyday and ask if i can meet her for lunch or pick her up after work, but success rate is 30%. We can't meet up after work or on wkends coz she wants to meet her BF. This is super frustrating, coz i really like her and am willing to break off with my GF just to be with her.

    This shit has been going on for the past few months now. I can tell that she kinda likes me, from her body language whenever i get to see her. Just got her flowers and a nice xmas gift.

    I tried giving up on her, but couldnt do it. She knows i tried, but she ain't encouraging me to give up. I'm getting mixed signals from her.

    So, Love Gurus, come on in and say what you gotta say. Direct any questions and clarifications to me.


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    Why are you still hanging on to your girlfriend? Don't be a jerk! Let her go. She deserves someone who treats her with more respect. Besides, why would the two-timing girl give up her boyfriend when you are still attached to your girlfriend?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by YSS View Post
    This is super frustrating, coz i really like her and am willing to break off with my GF just to be with her.
    I think you sound selfish. Why not break off with your GF first if she means that little to you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    I think you sound selfish. Why not break off with your GF first if she means that little to you?
    Agree, this is the kind of thing I despise, why don't you break up with your GF first? Is it because your scared the other girl won't like u in? So you have your GF to please you & your urges! It's so low what your doing to your GF, if you ever loved her and have a little respect for her, don't do this to her! Honestly break up, before she finds out about your wrong doings
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    I want to smack you. You've got some very wrong ideas about how relationships are supposed to work.
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    Nice, just had a threesome with them. rocking my socks off!!!

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    you know. Your a piece of sh*t.

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    Also a liar.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Feel like asking those 2 girls again for a 3some. any advice or comments on how i shud approach this?

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    Quote Originally Posted by YSS View Post
    Feel like asking those 2 girls again for a 3some. any advice or comments on how i shud approach this?
    The same way you did the first time. You know, the time that NEVER happened.

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    you know. Your a piece of sh*t.
    The goal of his threesome statement was to clearly piss off all the people that he got negative comments from. Don't fall for it, it tries to play on your jealousy. After people started pointing the finger at him he decided to kick that plan into motion.
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    Damn, just had a foursome with ur mommas

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    My mom is 65. Hope you have some nice memories from that encounter.
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    the teeny weeny microscopic bit of empathy i had for you, YSS, at the beginning of this thread had just gone. You're a PILE of s**t, not a piece of it. I hope you get neither of them and i hope you're next GF is just as self-centred and idiotic as you are.

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    ur unbelievable...people don;t deserve to be treated like that. you give guys a bad name with that kind of mentality.

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