Confused by my 'casual relationship'

[chocolatefish]

Hey

I've been seeing this guy for a year
When we first started seeing each other he wanted a proper girlfriend but I didn't want to be in a serious relationship so we left it as a casual thing.

Anyway, time has passed and i've started to fall for him. I think I want to be with him properly but I don't think he feels the same way and has just got used to seeing me occasionally.

Also, he gets jealous when i see other guys though and the whole situation is starting to grind me down. I don't feel like his girlfriend, but I don't feel like I can see other people without him getting annoyed with me

Any advice on what to do? or thought n what he's thinking? Thanks x x

[lahnnabell]

Well, you need to figure out what the hell you're doing. You said you want to be his girlfriend, so why haven't you brought it up? I suspect it is because you want him to ask you. You wanted the added ego boost of him declaring that he must be with you and only you. However, as it seems, he's quite comfortable with the state of things. He has you when he wants you, and when he gets jealous of you dating other guys, you're right back at his side. Like a puppy. Think about that.