Dumped a week before our wedding... anyone can bounce back!

[Warmor]

I was with my girl for 2 years. We were living together for a year and a half. We were to be wed April 9th, 2005. Then a week before, she called it off. I was a MESS! I did all the wrong things trying to get her back...bought books on getting a lover back and everything...stupid...but I came back. I was kicked out and back to my parents house, and now work two jobs. But it's for the best now. I never thought I'd say that. I told myself, "well this is different"...but it's not. If you want to read a journal I had through it all, go here:
[url]http://www.livejournal.com/users/warmor/2005/02/28/[/url]
It starts with me wanting to lose some pounds and get fit...then it changes to a fight we had, then a large break...then a daily routine of what happend and how I felt...see if any of you can relate to it.

You can read each entry and just click "Next day" at the bottom to keep on going through (some days I didn't post), or skip around by clicking "calandar". It goes from Feb 28, 2005 to June 9th, and most of March is empty though....hope it helps.

[mhussain]

that sucks man, and she sucks too.

i would say you should move on, but dont know how to tell u to go about it.

all i can say is have patience and i am sure things will be better for you

only a man who suffers enourmous pain, enjoys eternel bliss

HUssain

[misombra]

that sucks. you'll be okay though. everybody goes through this kind of shit it's life.

[Junsui]

Hmmm interesting signature. Should you really promote links about sites that could help your love last forever?

[Tone]

So what's going on with you now?

[Warmor]

Yeah it was back in April...I was a MESS! I worked 2 jobs, made all new friends, and started dating again after a while, so I'm much better. It's strange...the whole time I thought we would get back together, that there could be no one else, ever, that this is different and it has to be...boy was I wrong

Oh and Junsui, yeah sure, I mean, I read all that stuff and bought the e-books, and it not only helped me get over her, but it helped me to learn what I did wrong and create strong, REAL relationships now! I do things differently now and it's GREAT!

[Junsui]

I was just teasing you. lol