Tell me your way of starting conversation

[hipapaptuk]

Hi,

so here is my first question. I have a bit problem with the first steps in begin conversation. Here is the example:

It's been a month since i notice that a girl in the fitness where I do train seems to like me. She is watching me all the time and when we talk she is always so nice with me. I don't know how to ask her for a date. I mean what should I tell her... I'm used the girls to ask me, and now.. Tell me some of your strategies so I can try something

Cheers

[Gribble]

"I noticed you checking out the goods. You wanna **** or what?"

That ought to get her hook, line and sinker.

[vashti]

Just say hello, and make polite conversation. If the girl likes you, it almost doesn't matter what you say - body language is infinitely more important.

[KillaJakez]

Remember one thing, girls like it when they are hit on. They dont dress nice just for the sake of it. Keep it quick and confident..and simple. Strike up a random convo..be like..."definitley gonna go for a swim later..this weather is nuts"...or .."hey good morning / afternoon...I see you all the time around here..im ______ btw..wats ure name?...oh ok cool...well im gonna go have lunch later on...you can join me if you want." (key is to not ASK her to join u, but to let her know that she CAN join you).

[Gribble]

You can join me if you want?

That doesn't sound very confident.

[Steve2004]

Remember one thing, girls like it when they are hit on. They dont dress nice just for the sake of it. Keep it quick and confident..and simple. Strike up a random convo..be like..."definitley gonna go for a swim later..this weather is nuts"...or .."hey good morning / afternoon...I see you all the time around here..im ______ btw..wats ure name?...oh ok cool...well im gonna go have lunch later on...you can join me if you want." (key is to not ASK her to join u, but to let her know that she CAN join you).

...i'd probably smack anyone who said that to me. You can join me if you WANT?...right, i'll join you when you get balls to actually ask me.

Be sincere. Dont be stupid. Like vash said, she's pretty much already in the bag with your first word if she likes you.

[Gribble]

"Hey, babe, I'm taking you to lunch tomorrow, quarter to one. Wear something skimpy."

That's how you ask a girl to lunch.

[Steve2004]

"Hey, babe, I'm taking you to lunch tomorrow, quarter to one. Wear something skimpy."

That's how you ask a girl to lunch.

if i'm already friendly with a guy and like him, that would be a FANTASTIC way to ask.

(by the way..meet you there at a quarter to one, gribble) (:

[jurupa]

Tell her she has nice ass or tell her her top is sexy looking on her or something

But seriously there is no one way to start a conversation.

[Steve2004]

But seriously there is no one way to start a conversation.

no way at all? so you sign everything?

[Ellynn]

Just say hello, and make polite conversation. If the girl likes you, it almost doesn't matter what you say - body language is infinitely more important.

This is so true. Just be yourself and be friendly. Girls usually pick up on that vibe from you even if you don't say much at all.

[kapneb92]

is this an adult woman or a school girl teenager...
you can't go up to a teenage girl and say i like your ass.
actually i don't think you can go up to any girl and say i like your ass!
but there is a big difference betwen saying 'hey' or 'hello'
the cool way, or the mature way
usually the cool way for teenagers.
thats all.

[anachronistic]

Sure, I have dates all the time. Just go "Hey, you want to have dinner with me at suchandsuch a time?" It's quite simple. They'll return you with a simple yes or no, or if they're a bitch, they'll play hard to get.

Don't ever say "if you want" or let her know that she CAN join. You must imply that you want her to.

Never say please when you're asking a girl out. Never beg her to go out with you. That's inconfident.

Some girls don't like to be told what Gribble said. Some do, when they're really good friends. Sure, it's confident, but it's also cocky and rude. Could make her think that you have no respect.

[naoki322]

really off topic, but i just wanted to say steve2004 has the best signature <3

[jurupa]

no way at all? so you sign everything?

Yes I sign and date everything, its only proper you know.