ok, i know what i think... and i already voiced my opinion (strongly) to her. i am working in Afghanistan for a year. sucks on the relationship!!!! my wife has a guy friend, and i believe he is just a friend, but there is one thing i do not agree with. she told me she feels safe when he sleeps over, on the couch in the living room. again, i believe her, but i do not think this is healthy. i voiced my opinion to her and went off on him. i still think guys always have a different idea than women do. advice? am i wrong? i think if the roles were reversed she would be completely jealous and tell me to just stay at the friends house. how can i tell her how i feel without looking like a jerk ready to beat this guys face in? any advice would be great.