I think that I'm not suitable for that. I never get satisfied with what I've got. I'm so much jealous of everyone that is happy and satisfied and content with their long term partners, they get married and they live happily ever after. This doesn't sound like me
I have tried it many times, have had a number of long relationships. The last one was 6 years. The common process in all of my relationships has had three stages:
First stage: I get madly in love with that person, kind of desperate, can't stop thinking about him, become jealous, start worrying, and crying and stressing about the whole thing.
Second stage: We get to talk over all these things, everything seems to stabilise, we are happy, we are in love with each other, we have the perfect relationship, we'll be together for ever and everything that comes with it.
Third stage: Things have been the same, start feeling the "eating the same food every single day". No more excitment, boring days, boring outgoings, boring supermarket weekends, same and same all over again every single day. Every now and then, I go out with friends, have some fun and being nostalgic about the "old" days. Meet some new interesting people, freshness, something different. Then go back home to the same old same. Can't stand it anymore, I need a change. Can't stand him and the whole situation. I break up. He's hurt.
I'm scared that my dream will never come true. That this will go on and on and on. I have been single for the last two years after 10 years of long relationships without any break, but all those relationships had the same cycle as I describe above. I've had enough of long relationships and I'm having my break now but I'm still open to guys that I think might be mr.perfect. Because I want to be madly in love with him. I don't want him to bore me to death. But I'm scared that even if I get lucky and find this person, then the same thing will happen.
Unfortunately, I'm like that with every other part of my life. Work, apartments, countries, food etc.
Is this going to go away when I get older? Or am I doomed to either not find the man of my dreams, or being forced to live a boring life if I compromise?