So I have been friends with this girl for a few months now.
And, another mutual friend tells me that she really likes me.
Anyway, she only wants a serious relationship (even life-term relationship).
I am not ready and don't want such a serious relationship.
She doesn't know i know, and she told my friend not to tell me anything.
Now she is asking him to "suss me out" etc and find out if I have feelings, would consider a relationship etc.
The weird thing is, she knows that I have casual sex partners and one night stands etc. In fact I think from previous conversations she should realise I am not one for long term.
Just wondering, what is the best way to go around this? Basically as I care for her, I just want her to be in as little heartache as possible. She'll likely never know that I know, but maybe there is something our mutual friend could tell her that he "found out" from me?
Or, if she ever does tell me, what do I tell her?
I'd like to emphasise that what I am trying to do is make sure she isn't hurt