Maybe I'm just being stupid and overkilling the protective aspect of intercourse.
I've had intercourse with my girlfriend with just a condom. But not just any condom, it had to be a spermicidal lubricated condom. But that wasn't enough. I refuse to finish inside, I'll pull out about 15 seconds prior to me finishing, and just finish myself quick off to the side with the condom on. I also would check the condom every so often to make sure it was okay and there wasn't any visible tears. After a while I said, okay I'm done. Let's use condoms and birth control in order to continue this, otherwise no intercourse. Well, she's not going on birth control for about 2 months because she's got light surgery coming up and the antibiodics and medication she'll take after would only screw up birth control.
I talked to my buddy and he said he understands I'm just trying to be safe but, if I'm not only using condoms smart by reading on various sites to make sure I'm putting them on 100% properly, but also refuse to use anything BUT spermicidal condoms, PLUS pulling out ahead of time, he said maybe I'm just overkilling it.
What do you folks think?