undefined I have been dating a guy for about 4 months now...we have moved onto considering ourselves boyfriend/girlfriend. He is a wonderful guy and tons of fun. I was just wondering if anyone had any suggestions on how to talk to him about wanting more affection. He isn't cold by any means, but I've just come out of my first 3 years of college and was always more concerned with sex than affection...now that I've seen how it can be...I want more. I hate PDA, however, and am wondering if you had any suggestions of ways I can intiate affection as well. You know...hand holding, forehead kissing, arms around the waist...that kind of affection.