my gf is a little sexless, what am i gonna do about it?

[aimilan]

we love each other, but she is a little sexless. she even doesnt think about sex stuff without me, even in her ovulation period.

what am in gonna do?

[Mish]

Dress sexy, act sexy, give her massages, stimulate her senses. Make her wet, make her want you.

Most of the time if the girl is sexless it's either because of a strict guilt full moral code or the guy not doing something right.

[bohemiandonut]

What time is it when your girlfriend sits on the fence about sex?

Time to get a new girlfriend.

[aimilan]

What time is it when your girlfriend sits on the fence about sex?

Time to get a new girlfriend.

thx, but i wanna solve the problem, not avoid it. i'm not gonna leave her now.

[Mathias]

thx, but i wanna solve the problem, not avoid it. i'm not gonna leave her now.

How old are you?

[vashti]

Is she on birth control pills? For a very significant percentage of women, they mess with your sex drive. You might try a different form of birth control, but it could take up to a year for her hormones to normalize themselves.

Aside from that, you should work on technique. Girls who orgasm enjoy sex.

[hermionegranger]

Aside from that, you should work on technique. Girls who orgasm enjoy sex.

You couldn't have put it more right, vashti! I myself am having a little sex trouble with my boyfriend, but I'm, we're working on it. I don't enjoy sex with my boyfriend. He appearantly does and wants it every time we're together. I told him, I don't like sex that much. And well. It was a lie, he knew it, I knew it. So he said, he knows he's doing something wrong. And... we're gonna hook up tonight and... try to make me like sex.

You should talk to her. Ask her what she would like you to do!!

[Donrite]

Hey everybody, this sounds like a Donrite problem. Look up donrite you'll get all your answers answered. LOL.
UPDATE to everyone, she's still on her cycle and I'm waiting to see if it was just a horny spasm or if she broke her resolution.

[TheSphinx]

Don't leave out the possibility that she might just be a "cool" woman, by which I mean she naturally craves less sex than other women.

Levels of testosterone can have an effect on sex drive, and birth control can affect those levels.

Of course, like hermionegranger stated, some women will say they don't enjoy sex, though only because of inhibitions or they aren't enjoying sex with you.

Talk it out and experiment. If she is unwilling to work with you to improve your sex life, it's probably a good time to move on.

~Sphinx

[confused01]

talk about it, maybe you are doing something that instead of turning her on it only turns her off. the fact she doesn't tell you about it, is because maybe she sees your confidence that you are trying your best ( and maybe you think you are doing a good job no offense here , sometimes what might work with this girl won't even move a thing in the other ) so basically she doesn't want to disappoint you... talk about it ask her to tell you what she likes and how she likes it and to even show u...

[misombra]

maybe she just wants to leave her vagina alone and doesn't want somebody's cooties all over it.