Mind F***ers

[Lozenger]

Do you have someone playing mind games with you?
Well, if you do/did then please help coz that's what 3 people have done to me.

Ok - so he's the coolest guy in school and everybody loves him.
P.s - he's a ladies man lol
and well - we've been making quite a lot of eye contact - i dunno who started it but it's been going on since Oct.
He looks at me over peoples shoulders when he hugs them. He catches my eye in the reflection in computer screens. He smiles when he does this. He smiles at me anyway when our eyes meet. I'd also catch him looking at me - and it makes me feel all warm inside like toast lol.
- he spoke to me on myspace and we had really good convos and suddenly he stopped talking to me on myspace - and i was like ookkkkaaaay then. But then he goes and starts talking to me face to face - all the while ignoring me on myspace (both our comments are hidden) and i just find it strange.

So - any suggestions on what i should do?


P.s In answer to people questions he doesn't have a gf and there are two of this thread coz my computer froze so i didn't know if it worked or not and so pressed the button again lol

oh and i just found out today (30th march) that my friend has a crush on him too and she's a good friend of his so i guess i should stop this eye contact/talking to him stuff right? Or should I just keep it to a minimum and hope i become his friend too - and only his friend?

[misombra]

run.______________

[FoxyLaydee]

Messages are hidden? Why keep it hidden?

Oo..oh... does he have a GF?

[bloodtippedrose]

Hmm. Those are the kind of guys that everyone likes, thinks theyre way out of their league but after you graduate you find out you totally could have had him and he wasnt all that awesome. Anyway I dont know if hes just being nice and cocky or if he's digging you, either way dont be intimidated by him..

[lemonade69]

i've had that done to me. he had a gf at the time. after he broke up with her, he tried to talk to me, but i blew him off, LOL

[Mish]

P.s - he's a ladies man lol


So - any suggestions on what i should do?

Well, he's a ladies man, he must have a lot going on in the background.

Are you up for some competition?

[vashti]

Why are there two of these threads? Grr!!

Anyway, if he likes you, he will ask you out. If he's a lady's man, he certainly knows how.

[lastwish]

Mind games gets boring. I don't have the time in the world to play along. Do you?

[Gigabitch]

I blew off a guy in high school because I thought there was no way he seriously liked me. He was the "it guy", and he could have had anyone he wanted.

Turned out he actually liked me and I blew it.

[Lozenger]

Mmmm - I'm not sure if i'm up for the competition lol but as i found out today about my friend liking him too - i guess it would be mean of me to flirt with him anyway