Possible Pregnancy

[BFTrick]

Hello haven't been here in a while.

Might have made a serious girlfriend pregnant a few weeks ago.

What are my options?

1. Have Baby
2. Adoption
3. Abortion

anything I forgot?

I am going to be finishing up my final year of college, and the gf hasn't attended college.

She seems to be against abortion, and I am impartial to it, but leaning towards it in this situation. Ironically because i would be a good father she doesn't want an abortion. She would have an abortion if the father is an ass.

She doesn't want to give it up to adoption.

As of right now it looks like if she is pregnant we will be keeping it.

We will know if she is pregnant in the next week or so.

[shh!]

Is this the 18 year old?

Oh god.

Why does she need to wait a week to find out? You can go buy a pregnancy test kit at the drug store and find out the next morning.

If she is pregnant, considering how young you both are, I think you should enlist some parental support in trying to talk her into adopting out the baby. Neither one of you are anywhere near ready for this kind of responsibility.

[BFTrick]

yup she is 18.

Well her period should be in a couple of days. She took a test but it is only 54% accurate at this point.

this is so stressful.

[shh!]

Did the test come back positive?

[BFTrick]

The test came back negative. I hope for so much luck for the next tests.

I will let you guys know what happens.

[Charlie Boy II]

If she hasn't missed her period yet and the test's come back negative, what makes you so worried that she's pregnant?

[shh!]

I know they aren't 100% effective, but those home tests are pretty good. I would relax a little if I were you, but I hope you learned to protect yourself better.

[Gribble]

I know they aren't 100% effective, butthose home tests are pretty good. I would relax a little if I were you, but I hope you learned to protect yourself better.

I read that as butt hoes. Heheh. I'm easily amused.

[shh!]

Hah! I changed it.

[misombra]

you need birth control right away.

[ecojeanne]

ok u can only take the morning after pill up to 72 hrs after, another option is up to 5 days after she can have a copper device put into her womb. The only time the pregnancy test is accurate in on the expected day of her period....those are the choices but u better be quick...

[lesa]

Also there are risks for false negative but a false positive is unlikely. When the results are postive it means that she is pregnant or has a tumor that produces hcg, etc. There is no 'misreading' a positive result.

[Tedel]

Let me correct you:

What are my options?

1. Have Baby
2. Adoption
3. [STRIKE]Abortion[/STRIKE]

[misombra]

wouldn't abortion go before "have baby?"

[Tedel]

A blood test can easily, fast and let you know exactly if she's pregnant or not. Anyway, and sorry if you think this is old-fashioned or "passionate" but, please, don't consider abortion an option.

That baby doesn't have neither your or your girl's DNA code; he or she would be another different human being. There is no need to kill him to let both of you go on with your lives.