big problem need help >.<

[lol112]

bah....well thier this girl i like and i think she likes me as well, we get along well and etc...but my friend also likes her..but he does not know i like her and i m thinking of asking her out, if i do that my friend will get angry at me or even hate me?, than he will say i stole his girl but dam i meet her first i just introduce her to him and he says to me i like her so m i like ok den..and blah blah blah and now he think that he the only onethat lieks her but dam also me...so it her or my freind i m so dam confuse and duno what to do >.<? help!

[giulia]

ok,

1.Pick your friend. don't waste a friendship over a girl
2.talk to your friend, make sure he stays away as well.

I've been there before but I went and took the guy.Let me tell you that it was the stupidest thing I ever did. I almost lost a great friend and for what? A 2 week fling? Don't go down that road. And next time, post in the dating section so that people see your posts and can help you out more.

[Rosebud]

oh geez, wasn't there another thread about this same thing..

Talk to your friend and tell him how you feel, I'm sure you guys will come to a compromise somewhere. Nobody is worth ruining a friendship over.

[CircleC]

i think i replied to this before too.

my advice is to lead your friend towards other girls. Make it a point to let him know if a girl is looking at him or anything of that nature. Help him getting over the object of your desires. Then he'll feel fine letting you be with the girl he didn't want.

[Tone]

No, you newer people are just starting to realize how often the same problems get rehashed here over and over and over and over again, same situations just new names.

[CircleC]

No, you newer people are just starting to realize how often the same problems get rehashed here over and over and over and over again, same situations just new names.

Makes me glad I took that computer class in school. Learned to cut and paste.