Hello, Im in (what I consider) a difficult situation and was hoping someone here could offer some good advice. What Im actually looking for is some simple relationship advice, but to me it seems like a lot more since im such a novice, so it may seem like my explanation here blows my predicament way out of proportion.
Anyway, ive just started university, and feel like I have fallen in love with this girl who I see about in our library and other spots around the uni. She simply is the most beautiful girl i have EVER seen, i kid you not, this is exactly how i feel. We have made eye contact on a few occasions, and once she sat down beside me in the library to do some work. I chatted to her for just a couple of seconds that time and she didnt really make it seem like i was intruding. So this is the only reason I have to suspect she MIGHT also be interested in me.
Ive been meaning to have another chat with her when I see her again, but at these times i have seen her she seemed to be deep in study, so I didnt want to make a nuisance of myself.
I literally cant stop thinking about this girl, and ive cried a few times already due to my perceived helplessness in this situation. I am also beginning to feel a bit depressed about not making any moves because I have no idea how she would react if I made it obvious I was attracted to her and, basically, wanted to be her boyfriend.
Can anyone here give me some pointers? I dont know if I should try talking to her when shes in the middle of her work, but so far I have only ever seen her in the library doing some sort of work. I wouldnt want to wait too long to try and catch her when she's not doing work because I might have missed my chance by then.
Apologies if my description seemed very disjointed, but my mind really is spinning because of this. Anyway, any help would be appreciated,
Forgot to mention, Im 20 and i think she might be 22