So there is this girl that works at a restaurant with two of my friends. I've gone there at least like once a week for months now and every time I go in she is eyeballing me...and I would be a liar if I said I didn't do it back...So I just got out of a 6 year relationship and had nothing to lose and approached her. I got her number last night and instead of following the useless approach of waiting I sent her a text letting her know I was definitely interested in her and to have a good night. We then talked a bit before the other end trailed off. She has a kid and she bluntly told me she is in a relationship she is not happy with and just wants the company so thats why she is there. So I text her again today to see how her day was going. We got to talking and she said something about it being cold and I said it was good cuddle weather. She replied with that she isn't a very touchy person...which I told her that was a major problem in my last relationship and that I appreciate affection when its necessary...not always but frequently enough to know that I got it. Then I asked what she was looking for in a relationship right now...just to get a feel for the situation I am trying to get into. After that and another text going unanswered I left it with one last text saying Give me a call or text sometime this weekend if you get bored. Maybe I can take you to lunch Sunday before you head to work...am I headed in the right direction or am I over pursuing quick..a friend says I'm moving fast and that I may be coming off like I just want sex. I think the best way to get to know someone is to just go hang out...in public places together and talk. I'm not asking her to go get a room. I also invited her to go with me next weekend to a friends birthday party for his son...I simply said if you don't have work maybe you and Alex can come along. Any advice on the matter would be lovely and thanks for taking the time to read this!