why do guys who fight all the time get hott girlfriends?

[Roscoe]

It seems like the assholes who always get drunk and try and fight people always have a girlfriend. they dont have their lives together at all obviously so how do they get relationships?

[Aeradalia]

Because those women have a variation of this [url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/26633-description-shining-knight-syndrome.html[/url]

[carl1222]

Aeradalia is right ... also, there are some girls who find "bad boys" very exciting. But before you lose heart and say "nice guys always finish last" remember ... these are pathetic girls who are not anywhere near relationship material.

Carl.

[kene]

What Carl said. =)

[Junket]

Those girls are often just as f*cked up in the head as those guys.

Just act like an alpha male with nothing to lose and you'll get one of those slutty barbies too.

[carl1222]

Just ask yourself ... would you really want to be in a relationship with a girl (even a hottie) who gets off with a guy who doesn't do foreplay, wipes his d**k on her drapes and leaves without as much as a "thank you"??????

Carl.

[Gribble]

Just ask yourself ... would you really want to be in a relationship with a girl (even a hottie) who gets off with a guy who doesn't do foreplay, wipes his d**k on her drapes and leaves without as much as a "thank you"??????

Carl.

Relationship? No. Would I **** her? Yeah.

[carl1222]

Relationship? No. Would I **** her? Yeah.

Exactly, Gribble ... but it's very hard for a nice guy to pretend to be a bad boy ... so we have to work harder to get laid! *sigh*

Carl.

[somethingelse]

bad boys are seen as 'hot' by many girls. you can blame movies and romance novels. still to many of the 'bad boys' in the real world are jerks. even some girls who know this think they can change him. some can. but most can't. i think it's a lost cause to try.

[Henry123]

...it's very hard for a nice guy to pretend to be a bad boy ... so we have to work harder to get laid! *sigh*

Carl.

I agree. Nice guys have to work at being rude/abrasive and selfish. Its all that conditioning has to go.

[23mako]

The reason is because they know what they want and they are willing to fight to get what they want. Nice guys know that they want a beautiful girl, but they are too afraid of being rejected. A lot of @ss holes have beautiful and wonderful girlfriends because nice guys are too intimidated by them.

[Illusional]

pretty girls love drama and excitement. c'mon, how many hotties do you see studying their asses off in the library when they can bang the professor and get an easy A.

raverboy

[Roscoe]

Those girls are often just as f*cked up in the head as those guys.

Just act like an alpha male with nothing to lose and you'll get one of those slutty barbies too.

haha... tempting...

[JustPassing]

I'd say that the majority of girls / women tend to favor men who they think can protect them, if not consciously then at least sub-consciously.

And the girls / women who go for violent, drunken hooligans are too STUPID to see that… although at first glance those morons may exhibit some alpha-male characteristics… they are also complete jerks!!!

Most girls who go for these violent morons are either of the bimbo Barbie variety as people have said... or have serious self-esteem issues and settle for these jerks because they don't think they deserve any better…. It's sad that some women feel like this, but once their low-self-worth mind set takes root there is little you can do to change it... only they can help themselves out of that mind set with counseling etc.

In reality I think most women want a guy who will BOTH respect and protect them.

Many probably pass on the stereotypical confidence-lacking "nice guy"…. because nature has programmed them to value confidence over kindness in a potential mate.

I think that the more intelligent women out there realize that there is more to a good boyfriend than the ability to get into bar room brawls…. and can appreciate the many different aspects that contribute to their "ideal" partner.

However, I think given the choice.... most women would opt for a well-balanced confident guy... over both a violent alcohol-chugging jerk and your stereotypical confidence-deficient "nice guy".

In conclusion... if you want to settle for a brainless bimbo or attract girls with serious self-esteem issues...then work on your drunken thuggish side and ditch the respect....

If you want to attract more intelligent well balanced women... then build up your confident side but keep the respect.

[Sixpacj]

"bad boy" = non-needy, abundance mentality when it comes to women, leads an "exciting life", gives the woman a range of emotions, negative and positive, is often in short supply as he is busy leading his "exciting life", does not give a fukk about anything, is emotionally and physically strong, has very clear boundaries, puts himself first, dresses bad ass, a leader = VERY ATTRACTIVE.

"nice guy" = weak sense of reality, susceptible to social pressure, has no clear standards of what is and what isn't accepted behaviour, puts the woman on a pedestal, has low self-esteem, communicates that he hasn't had much in the way of experience with women, has a scarcity mindset so he clings to whatever woman he can get, afraid of "rejection", bad at sex, often has no sense of fashion, is afraid of "standing out", a follower = VERY REPULSIVE.