trying not to get attached..

[manonfire]

Lets say, hypothetically, theres this girl. I go over her house a TON, hypothetically, cause we have so much fun toghether (sexually). Lets ALSO say, hypotheyically, she is cheating on her current with me. (dont hate me all you guys whose gf cheated on them) i tend to get oversuspicious with her because i know that if she cheated on her current bf, then shell probably "cheat" on me (cant really cheat cause were not goin out). I try to remind myself shes "not mine", but it doesnt work usually. I dont wanna get too attached to her cause i know ill just get hurt, so ive been trying to just distance myself, like emotionally, by flirting with other girls and stuff but they seem to be out of season or hibernating. How can i keep my mind of this girl? it just sucks thinking about how close ive been getting to her, and i really need to just stop feeling this way.

p.s. dont you peoples even think abotu saying not to go over her house so much. you dont know HOW much masturbation would have to go on to make up for all the stuff she does.

[Junket]

If you're trying not to get attached means you probably already are. Which means you're in denial.

[III Angie III]

How can i keep my mind of this girl

It's simple.
Stand in the mirror and admire your handsome traits (in which you feel you may have).
Continue looking in the mirror....... Now, SMILE. Like what ya see?
Now visualize yourself missing a few front teeth! Like what ya see?
Next, close your left eye, while focusing on yourself in the mirror, with your right.
The visualization you now see is what you're going to look like with a black eye.
Finally, drop your pants and look at your pecker.
Admire its size. Wanna keep "it?"

In other words, stay away from another guys girlfriend unless you're wanting to take the chance of ending up bruised and peckerless.

[misombra]

oooooh that funny! 10 points for angie.

when you find out how to not get attached, you write a book and win the nobel prize.

[Andy_S]

I was in the same situation as you mate...

She ended up splitting up with her bf for me. Bf found out i was seeing her behind his back recieved threats etc but nothing ever came of it.Lost a few 'friends' because they were friends with her bf.

We lasted 9 month - she cheated. Hurt(s) like crazy, ill never forgive her and i got too attached.

My advice, go find a sweet honest girl (if there are still any about).

[III Angie III]

oooooh that funny! 10 points for angie.

*'*Feeling like a fat, freckled-nosed grade school kid (with a water gun @ the local fair) who just won the game by squirting the most water into the clowns mouth*'* ...............

"May I trade my 10 points for one of those really nice toyz on top?" :::smiles:::

[abercromqt20]

there are definately still girls out there like that!!!

and if you are really serious about not getting attached to her, have u tried just simply staying away. I mean you already know that by seeing her like this you are becoming attached. So the only thing to rightfully do is break it off. Go find yuor own girl, who won't end up cheating on you in the end! Because if they cheat with you, they will cheat on you!!!

[zas]

Don't touch other people's bf or gf, how would you like it?

[Cybog]

As much as you might think all this advice sucks, its pretty much the truth.

How can i keep my mind of this girl?

dont you peoples even think abotu saying not to go over her house so much. you dont know HOW much masturbation would have to go on to make up for all the stuff she does.

Sorry, but you already know what you have to do. In the words of Lord Vader - It is the only way...

[abercromqt20]

What's with boys and Star Wars?

[III Angie III]

lol, I think it has something to do with the fact that most of them spend 3/4's of their time lost in space. lol :::shrug:::

[Junket]

What's with boys and Star Wars?

One dude mentions Star Wars and suddenly all guys are synonymous with it? I don't understand your logic.
My question is, what's with Angie narrating all of her body language?

[muli]

New here and wanted you all to know I am enjoying it much... advices are so easy to give.. wondering how many practise what we preach...

[Only-virgins]

Wow, I feel sorry for her BF. She is giving you all that and the poor guy probably gets the " nah..not now..I am to tired" BS from her because she is done. Why do girls lie like that? Why doesnt she just tell her BF? I wonder how much cheating girls do on average that never ever gets noticed by their BFs.

[toto]

My guess is you have never been in a long relationship where the person your with is everything. If you did you wouldnt need to ask how to keep away from her.

Again, i feel sorry for the boyfriend, because shes no good and he probabily doesn't know it!