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    How to flirt with a girl without messing up?

    Im trying to flirt with this girl that i really like but im horrible at flirting, i also freeze up and don't know what to talk to her about alot. we are both in 11th grade in high school.

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    Hold on a second... define flirting. You said you don't know what to say to her. Well talking to a girl isn't necessarily flirting. What is it you're trying to do?

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    Im trying to get her to like me but i dont know how to go about it, she seems to like me but i dont know what to do really when im around her

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    well what are some of her interests, find that out then ask her on a date as friends of course and do something related to one of her interests preferably something where you guys can talk, and just get to know her. thats the best way to go about it if you have no game

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    Thats the problem i seem to have a hard time talking to her or even just starting up a conversation

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    How far have you gone in your conversations with her? because that is very important. What kind of image does she have of you so far?
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    Yeah, how much have you talked to her thus far. If you hardly know her I suggest just bringing up something about school... I assume you have a class with her. Is the teacher easy to make fun of, maybe you can crack a few jokes. The reason why I say talk about school is, though it seems lame... if you don't know any of her interests that's the only thing you know you have in common. So it might be your only option to actually start a conversation.

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    well if you really have that much trouble with her thenjust bring something up about school, or maybe go around her at lunch time? im not sure how your school works but when i was in highschool lunch time was a pretty social. just go up and chat think positive.

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    Wish I could help you... I never was good with the whole "flirting" thing...

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    hi..
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    Quote Originally Posted by dbzzx
    Im trying to get her to like me but i dont know how to go about it, she seems to like me but i dont know what to do really when im around her

    Sorry deary but flirting of any sort will not get someone to like you. You can't change how someone feels about you. You can put it out there that your interested by flirting, but that's about it.

    And tone, that was the funniest thing I have heard in a long time!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rosebud
    Sorry deary but flirting of any sort will not someone to like you. You can't change how someone feels about you. You can put it out there that your interested by flirting but that's about it.

    And tone, that was the funniest thing I have heard in a long time!
    Haha I had a giggle too, he's such a cutie hehe.


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    hi..
    (Oh god.. oh god... oh god.... was she talking to me? was she saying 'hi' to me? What should I say.. I don't want to just say 'hi' back.. gotta say something good... look at her.. damn she fine... she couldn't have been talkin to me...)

    *clears throat*

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    EDIT::: Damn you guys ruined my joke!!!!!

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