I am a girl from Guangzhou, China. I have submitted my profile to many international dating website, such as perfectmatch, eharmony, Chnlove, chineselovelinks, ect. I received many matches and after a painful selection, I chose one boy on Chnlove as I felt safe communicating on its platform. It seemd that he really was my perfect match. We went on quite well until one day last month. I haven't received his letter for nearly one month. I was almost desperate and finally Chnlove helped me contact him. He caught a car accident and needed a large sum of money to repair his car and could not afford to communicate with me on Chnlove. Then our first inharmony appeared. I am a traditional Chinese girl and in my value, a man is the center of a family and he is the main source of family income. Moreover, he should have some savings for a rainy day. But in his opinion, it is not necessary to put some money aside. What he earns can give him a comfortable life. He always runs out of money.
Therefore, I feel quite insecure with such a man.No security for my future life. What can I do?
Anyone shares similar experience with me? I need your advice.