Hello All,
I've been in a relationship for few years now. It's been pretty good but recently it has been different. We both have gone through personal changes, and i think, we are thinking about whether the other one fits into each others lives anymore. So to make matters worse, something happened recently that has made me think he could be cheating. I had never suspected anything before, so I am quite confused
Here's what happened:
Im surfing the internet and someone had sent my bf a message over instant messenger (he left it signed on). It was in his native language, so I replied, in his language, that he wasn't here. The person then continued in English and asked if he (or me, not sure actually) had been to a place the night before. I said i didnt know what the person was talking about but again said that my bf wasn't available. I noticed that this person wasnt on my bf's contact list so i asked who this person was and that i would give the message to my bf but the person ignored my questions and then asked who I was. I said my name and the person said, "his girlfriend" and i said yes and asked again who it was and the person signed off.
ok, so then i confront my bf. his explanation was all over the place. he said he recognized the name, someone met over the internet, said didnt know if it was a male or female or even this person's name. I didnt understand him at all. What confuses me is that 1. whoever this person is knows where we live (we live abroad and we dont know that many people) 2. knows the nationality of my bf and 3. knows about ME. so why doesnt my bf know about this person?!
Sorry this was so long...I would really appreciate anyone's input on this!