if a girl doesnt respond to your text

[slimla]

I hung out with her a few times and then when i texted her she didnt respond.

I really want to text her "did I do anything to upset or offend you?"

I'm interested in her and dont know why she wont respond to my text other then the obvious

[shheadz]

How many texts over how much time? Either way, no I would not say that. It makes you sound insecure.

[TheWizard]

If you absolutely must text her again make it a whole new thread, don't ask for something to seek approval from her it's not a good idea.

In these situations I just send another text like 4 days later saying I'm heading out to get something or otherwise invites her along to something I may or may not be doing for a day in the future. This will make you appeal more attractive because...

A) You weren't fumbling after her asking if she's ok, you're ok, if everything is ok (WHICH IS NOT OK, every guy wants to do this to start, don't do it)

B) You're still living your awesome life, and you want her to come along for the ride rather than hanging on a message hoping you'll have something to do that night.

We all have to learn this sometime, might as well take notes now. Never ask or apologize for something small, trivial or otherwise silly that you've said.

[tufty]

i am a girl, and as such i know why i dont respond to texts.

1. i dont have credit
2. i need my own space
3. i am not interested

i would expect u to text me over and over and over, even if i wasnt that interested initially and u text me once, i didnt respond and then u DIDNT text again, that might spark some interest for me - cos then i would feel like i was rejected by you.

its all a crap game really

[Sanctuary]

^ Yes, listen to what she said.

You have nothing to gain by texting her.

Except if you txt her - "did i do anything to upset or offend you", that's a surefire way to destroy whatever chances you had.

[Paul Cho]

I only respond to text's, no way do I text anyone. That just looks desperate, like a guy going to a mall and stealing cologne samples because he won't buy a bottle himself.


Or a girl.


Paul Cho

[tufty]

oh god paul ur hard work!!!

if you only respond to texts that means u like the girl to take the lead - most girls feel that you are not interested if u dont text and assume you're not interested - sure fire way to stay single. imo

[Thelovedoctor]

If a girl doesn't respond to your text, it means she's gobbling some other's guy's dong and doesn't give a damn about you.

so give up and find some nice, desperate fatty to bone. At least if you date a fat girl, you'll never go hungry(even though she may mistake your hand for a burger)