Hey there, after a long friendship I finally built up the courage to ask a this girl out. We've always had a very flirtatious and hands on relationship so I thought it was the natural step.
Apparently not. I asked, I got a on. She didn't want to "risk our friendship." In fact, i'll quote her, "Please please dont because you know i love you but there is no way i would risk losing all that!"
So I guess what i'm trying to ask is what is going through her head right now? There must be a few ladies on the forum that have been on the 'rejector' side of this. Is there anything that I could do to change her mind?
I blew off another girl just for her, she doesn't know I did it for her but i'm sure it's obvious now. Is it worth telling her? Should I just leave her for a while and then try to pick the friendship back up?
In all honesty, I did really want to face her anytime soon, it was embarrassing enough getting the no and I hurt right now.. Really hurt.
Sorry for going on a bit, any advice or past experiences would really be nice.
Thanks,
Campbell