its been bothering me a bit....

[sunnybunny8212]

as you all know, i made a post about my boyfriend... and were considering a break...
in a way i feel we should see other people, but then i feel i love him soo much, and im his first gf.
anyway, im a waitress, and so i meet lots of people...
i met this one guy at work a couple days ago...
and he was amazing!

out going, perfect charm, great phisique, loving, and all that great stuff a woman would like
[what my bf kinda doesn't have because i taught him everything].

well he ended up staying at work with me until my shift ended just to keep me company
[i work at nights].

so every now and then we spoke, and it felt so natural, and for the first time
i actually spoke to someone that
that seemed...exciting!
he was gorgeous... but: he just got a divorce a year ago, he has 3 beautiful children,
his job requires him to be gone 2 months straight and stay home for 1 month....
and he's about 12 years older me and to be honest that doesn't matter >.<

lol its crazy i know, idk if its just natural, or why i feel this way. he's amazing
and sexy, and MATURE...
i definitely don't think i want a relationship after the issues my bf and i are going
through

its wrong i know... i kinda like him, but im too hesitant to do anything of course
because don't know where i stand with my bf, and we have a lot of issues...

i guess i jus want to know... am i wrong... i mean idk where i stand...

because with my bf i feel...not fun??

him and i talk and stuff, but...it seems like he fulfills what ive never had with anyone...
is this wrong?

its a lot i know, i just hope someone can help or give suggestions.... <3

does it make sense....?

[vashti]

If you think you don't feel "fun" with your boyfriend, just wait until you are dealing with other people's kids on a regular basis. Those "beautiful children" very frequently become a nightmare in divorce situations, and if there are 3 of them, you can COUNT ON at least one of them being difficult. To be honest, you don't sound old enough to handle this situation, and I generally don't advise it unless one already has their OWN children.

If you are unhappy with your current relationship, I think it is best for you to just get rid of the boyfriend. Don't jump from the frying pan into the fire!

[sunnybunny8212]

lol okay
you've got a point <3

[Alvy]

Oh, and there's no need to feel sorry for your current partner either. You were his first, but unless something tragic happens him, he'll find someone else in a few years time.

[xxazurexx]

I agree with Vashti. If you aren't happy and have issues with the current relationship, why are you there? Leave it.

Take some time out and to be alone.

[sunnybunny8212]

I agree with Vashti. If you aren't happy and have issues with the current relationship, why are you there? Leave it.

Take some time out and to be alone.

yeah you guys are right...
thanks it means a bunch!!
<3
i guess i was getting ahead of myself.
thaks again

[xxazurexx]

^^Trust me, the best thing you can do, is to take time out alone. That is something I have always done.
Helps you clear your head and gives you time to figure out that you want - and 'single' life aint as bad as it's cracked up to be.
I love being 'single' and independant and doing as I please.
More so and because I was married for a long time though, lol