The Cougar Diaries

[starbuck]

So a guy writes me out of the blue on Facebook today, chatting me up from an NYC singles group I'm linked up on. I click on his pictures. Pretty cute, I'm thinking. So I look at his birthday. 19-FREAKING-87!!!! He's 21! What the hell is this guy doing writing me? Did he not look at my birthday? Or is he seriously thinking I'm some kind of a cougar who will just **** him anyway?

Honestly, it seems like all I do lately is attract younger guys, especially on dating sites. I know I look young and all, but I don't get it! I'm starting to think the single age-appropriate guys went the way of the dodo. At least here in NYC.

What is the deal?

[DoesntMatter]

Idk. Guys like you

[lesa]

I wouldn't mind a younger sex mate.

[starbuck]

Idk. Guys like you

I'm not complaining, DM, but they're so young. I can't attract a DILF type?

[DoesntMatter]

I wouldn't mind a younger sex mate.

Well then, if you've been looking consider your search officially over

I'm not complaining, DM, but they're so young. I can't attract a DILF type?

You definitely can. It's just that more men that age are taken

That, and the tendency of older men to pursue women who are younger than they are

[Gigabitch]

That shit happens to me sometimes too. It's ridiculous. I'm forty, for Christ's sake. I don't need some little puppy.

You're a fantasy to him, Starbie. He wants the experience, like straying outside the limits of his usual preferences for race or body type. Men are pigs for experience.

[1averagejoe]

It could be worse...you could be ugly. Starbucks is a hot cougar. You're milf material.

<3

[DoesntMatter]

That shit happens to me sometimes too. It's ridiculous. I'm forty, for Christ's sake. I don't need some little puppy.

You're a fantasy to him, Starbie. He wants the experience, like straying outside the limits of his usual preferences for race or body type. Men are pigs for experience.

Men are not pigs. Pigs are farm animals. Men are the humans who built the world you're living in

But anyways, I'm sure it was all perfectly fine when you were a young woman Giga and were toying with older guys

[Gigabitch]

No, the biggest age difference for me was seven years (he was older). He was 23 and I was 16. That's not a nice story.

I've stayed within 3 years of my own age ever since.

[DoesntMatter]

Men are pigs for experience.

LOL

Women are the ones who CRAVE the experienced men. You are the ones who WANT MEN LIKE THAT, men the complete opposite of me

[Gigabitch]

What I meant was that men will "try something new" on purpose, just to have the experience. I'm not making this up- this is coming directly from my husband. Men like to really sample the buffet, just to see what it's like.

[DoesntMatter]

No, the biggest age difference for me was seven years (he was older). He was 23 and I was 16. That's not a nice story.

And thus your desire for experienced guys was probably born

I've stayed within 3 years of my own age ever since.

Let me guess, they were probably all well experienced under the covers relative to you, right? Or high in terms of absolute experience after you yourself had plenty of practice and were no longer wet behind the ears

[starbuck]

I don't care if he has experience or not. He could be a 40-year old virgin for all I care. I just want to date someone who isn't still in freaking college! No offense guys!

I'm ok with a little bit younger, but no one under 30. BTW, my twin sister's fiancee is seven years younger.

[misombra]

that's been happening with me too.

guys that are something like 10 years younger than me are checking me out. way more so than when i was their age.

i just figure cause i'm more confident than i was back then. there aren't a lot of confident girls out there for guys to admire.

[DoesntMatter]

I don't care if he has experience or not. He could be a 40-year old virgin for all I care.

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