I'm in college, and I don't have a lot of friends who are girls. I'm an engineering major, and there aren't a lot of pretty girls in my classes. In fact, I don't think the classroom is a good place to meet girls. I mean I can see myself ask people to study with me on the weekends, but when the semester's over, I basically don't see them anymore. I play club ultimate frisbee, and I know a couple of girls form there. But I'm not the partying/drinking type, so I rarely go to parties. I don't really have time to join clubs because I'm very busy with classes, ultimate, and work. At the same time, I don't want to be stressed out all the time, since I don't go out with friends much. Even though I have a decent social life, I feel lonely because I don't have a girl, or don't know many girls for that matter. I'm not desperate to lose my virginity. It's just that I see people holding hands everywhere I go, and it sucks.
P.S. I live at home due to financial reasons. For that, I'm not involved in the social circles that goes on at the dorms and on campus.