Mike, i also hope you're doing this for YOU and not for the ladies. If you think being in great shape will get the girls running over to you, think again. The reason i think you might be doing it mostly for them is because of the fact you're rushing this and it's way too much. Take it easy bud.
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings