Meeting my family.....

[elfen31]

Ok......I've met my bf's family and they're cool....thank God....but of course he's asked me the dreaded question.....when is he going to be able to meet my family.....

I just can't handle it. I know I'm gonna sound chicken shit to alot of you, but I don't care. My parents got divorced so it's just my mom and my two younger brothers that he'd meet. My mom basically criticizes and rips to shreds every single bf I have EVER had. She's EXTREMELY picky. I just don't think I can handle it. I just don't. I'm terrified of how she'll react to him, if the whole damn introduction will be ****ing awkward like all the introductions of ALL my bfs have been. Why is it so damn important anyway? I mean he's having the relationship with me not with my family... and yes I know when you marry someone, you're pretty much marrying his family...but.....we've only been dating for like 2 months....what's the ****ing rush? Please don't get me wrong, he means alot to me....I just really don't want my mom to give one of her usual looks of disdain as she has with my other bfs....which would make the introduction that much more uncomfortable.

[Yggdrasil]

Does your mom have to hold hands with your b/f, spend time with him, kiss him and hold hands and all that good stuff?

NO?????

Then tell her to mind her own freaking business instead of being such a control freak.

You don't need your mothers approval.

[Junket]

F*ck your mother.

[elfen31]

No....it's not that my mom needs to meet him...he NEEDS to meet them. I mean...why is it so ****ing important...it's not like if my family likes him that means we'll last forever

[Junket]

He might be expecting to give a good impression on your family.

I'd be wary of his mindset, he might be trying to move too fast.