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    i met a guy online (on a dating site) at first he was everything i wanted in a man ,but he didn't have the looks that i liked .but he was so sweet and great...we moved in together(after only 2 monthes dating,per my daughters request )and now 9 months later i find myself hating it.......i moved 2 hrs from my home town ...i have a 15 year old daughter that adores him but said if i want to move we can help help help..there is more but it would take a while to write and i am tired so repl please

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    What is it about the situation that you don't like? Has your relationship gone bad? Or do you just not like living with him?

    Regardless, if you don't want to be there.....then it's pretty obvious you should just go. Make it happen.
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    Perhaps you moved in together too soon? Two months isn't really enough to fully get to know each other. Relationships are like a fine wine, they need time to mature.

    Whether you stay or leave now all depends on the circumstance, of which you will need to provide a bit more detail.
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    This isn't your daughter's decision. He's YOUR boyfriend, not hers. I think she should be considered in all of your plans, but it's not up to her.
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    Two months?

    Yes, it is YOUR decision, and your daughter will probably resent you for moving out. Next time, take decisions like this more seriously - you are responsible for TWO people, not just yourself. It's hard to maintain a supportive demeanor for someone who would exercise such poor judgement. You should get a life coach to run all important decisions by before you act so impulsively.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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