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[Mucka]

well, i have a question. I'm really not experienced when it comes to sex and... i happen to have a problem. When me and a boy had sex it was hard for me to get enough excited despite the vorplay. After that his penis fell out a couple of times. I'm just wondering, does this happen to any other person or just me. and what am I doing wrong (I believe it's me who has a problem)
please help!! thanks

[JMark]

German?

Penis falling out is often an erection problem with the male. And if you have a hard time getting excited, it just might be beacuse he doesn't know what feels good for you. Maybe he does, and maybe the problem is on your side, but wouldn't be so sure about it. To me it sounds like he's the guilty one.

[COAD]

Thats right, he dont know how to get a girl excited.......

Basically, he gotta "turn you on"

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/t7654-turning-a-guy-on.html[/url]

In that topic it explains on how to turn a guy/girl on.

[devilsrage]

whell if his dick fall out of you maybe it is a sign that he is small

[Cybog]

Ugh. All those godamn Viagra, penis pills, and lubrications are finally starting to destroy our sexual relationships with each other.

People need to get more info before you start "solving" the problems in life. Do you guys walk into a murder scene and automatically know who did it based on the time of day, or something similarly ludicrous?

#1. The most important question -How long have you been together?

#2. Almost equally important - How experienced are the both of you exactly?

I don't care how much of a stud you think you are, a lot of guys on their first 5-10 times of having sex with a girl the first few times is going to have a little "equipment" problems. Sex is just plain uncomfortable, awkward, strange, etc. the first few times with a new girl.

This is amplified if she is inexperienced or even remotely uncomfortable in the least bit.

Welcome to the early days of having sex with someone new. No, it's not always going to be like the porno movies where he is instantly hard for hours on end, and she is a geyser. Give it time to get used to each other and more comfortable sexually and physically, and things will "work" much better I'm sure, for the both of you.