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    Squirting

    Heya.

    So me and my girlfriend have manual sex quite a lot. We usually lie in bed together, I finger her and she jerks me off. Its great and tbh I am confident we both really enjoy it. We have had sex, but we both really enjoy doing this together and its a lot less effort for when we're too tired to have actual intercourse.

    Anyway, I have a question. Basically we can be doing it from anywhere between 10 minutes to an hour. Its great and we both talk about how great it is. She moans a lot and I'm confident she enjoys it. However my question is, after a while - especially after I go really fast on her clitoris - she says she goes "sensitive" after a lot of moaning and etc. She doesn't seem to enjoy when I mess with her g-spot so in general I stay on her clit unless she asks me to go deeper, just to clarify. She's new to it so I guess that may or may not change in the future.

    Either way, I am confident she really enjoys it but I'm not sure if she actually has an orgasm or not. Sometimes she breaths really fast and moans a lot, saying a lot of dirty stuff before she asks me to stop as she's sensitive. I understand orgasm is a lot different for women so I just wanted to ask, do you think she has an orgasm or not? She sometimes gets this when I lick her out as well if that helps.

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    The G-Spot is a part of the clitoris; they are not separate components.

    A good way to tell whether or not she's having an orgasm is that her clit will retract back under the hood. This is very noticeable because it should be hard and engorged with blood during pre-orgasm.

    You should consider giving her oral. It's much easier to get her to orgasm that way. It's likely that with your fingers you're probably getting close, but not quite putting her over the edge. Either way, I'm sure she's enjoying herself.

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    Missleading title ffs.
    orgasms arnt the same as squirting.
    female orgasms are a myth, spread by hollywood to get us to buy cologne, and squirting is another myth spread by the porn industry to get us to lick womens flowers.
    either way your thread title is pish.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bob96 View Post
    Heya.So me and my girlfriend have manual sex quite a lot. .
    LOL....Whats the auto model like?

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    Don't worry if she's having an orgasm. If she wants you to do something different, she should ask you to. That's what adults do. They communicate. If you are both having fun, then stick with it.
    So me and my girlfriend have manual sex quite a lot.
    If you are using a manual, then watch out for paper cuts! lol.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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    squirting is something i have never seen in person but would love to lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by JohnDater View Post
    squirting is something i have never seen in person but would love to lol
    Squirting is a wonderful thing. My fiancee squirts a lot, and my ex-GF squirts only occasionally.
    As far as I know, only women who experience explosive orgasms can squirt. Unfortunately, not every woman orgasms like that.
    It's a total turn on for me, even though we have to have sex on 2 layers of bath towels.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaius View Post
    Squirting is a wonderful thing. My fiancee squirts a lot, and my ex-GF squirts only occasionally.
    As far as I know, only women who experience explosive orgasms can squirt. Unfortunately, not every woman orgasms like that.
    It's a total turn on for me, even though we have to have sex on 2 layers of bath towels.
    This is not true. My wife has explosive orgasms...I mean moaning so loudly that I think the neighbors can hear her. She does not squirt. She gets really wet, but does not squirt. Sometimes her orgasms are so intense she loses control of her entire body. I mean toe-curling, screaming, eyes-roll-back-in-her-head orgasm!!!

    Now, to the OP, after my wife has an O her clit gets super sensitive and she cannot stand more stimulation. This also happens after she does a lot of moaning. This may be what is happening. I can feel her orgasmic contractions when I give her oral. While my tongue is on her clit, I put two fingers on her g-spot. I do this only after I know she is on her way to an O. It is so awesome to feel that!!!
    The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality—the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. -- 1 Corinthians 7 (The Message)

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