Well I guess my question is how do you support your man when he's looking for work? He's having a hard time finding a job and he's beating himself up about it everyday. He's getting heat from his baby's mama and his father. I can see how hard he's trying and how much he wants it but he gets really depressed. How can I lift him up and make him feel better about this and be supportive of him as he goes through this rough time?