Q. has she ever been able to make herself orgasm, coz if she's never been able to it herself, there's very little chance you or anybody else will.
in fact scrap the last part, because it will never happen, unless she knows what she's expecting, what happens when she does it herslef and how to let you know what to that makes her remember what it was like when she did it herself.
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.
A sad thing in life is that sometimes you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.
Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for awhile and leave footprints on our hearts. And we are never, ever the same.