Kicked GF out due to fear of my dad advancing??

[leadingedge04]

I am at work today and had to start early. my gf had the day off today and decided to spend the night at my house. I thought that both my parents would have to work so I'd leave around 6am followed by both my parents shortly after and my gf would lock up and leave whenever she got up. I woke up at 5:30Am and spoke to my mom asking when both mom and dad had to go to work.. She said that my dad had the day off.

I have anixety and I tend to worry/blow things up waaay too much and I have seen my dad on porn many times when its just me and him home alone (Ive walked by the room only to find him xing out of everything really fast). After doing the math of having a 23 year old woman alone in the house with my father, I thought he might "try" something and woke my gf up at 5:30 and said that it would be best if she'd leave. It wasn't all that bad because she'd go home and go back to bed anyway. She asked why and mentioned her ex's bfs's dad felt uncomfy with having her around home alone and I pretty much said it was the same thing and suggested that it would be easier if she left because...well i kinda told her the whole story of how i use to see my dad on porn and I don't feel comfy with her home alone if he does try anything.
I was worried about this with my ex too. My ex would f-k anything and I know my current gf has a brain I am still not sure if A) my dad advanced on my ex and B) If he did if they did anything, I am sure my ex would've been like "yeah, sure".

On the long drive to work my brain scambled and I felt like total shit. I still do. Its my dad and I could be waaaay off about this because he does seem to like to talk to my gf and is polite. I guess I just get a weird vibe. I know its set and done and I can't do much. My gf is really cool about things and said she "kinda" understands and that I need to chill and that she simply won't spend the night when I have to work the next day. We decided to drop the subject and move on but I dont want her to feel uncomfy when she is around my dad. Any suggestions? What should I do?

[vashti]

In a way, I kind of hope your dad is as depraved as you seem to believe, because it would be truly disgusting to think him capable of this kind of betrayal just because he wanks to porn!

Anyway, I think you should move into your own place, and then you won't have to worry about your dad.

[Gribble]

Wow. Either you have one ****ed up family or you're stupidly paranoid.

I'm sure my dad watches porn. I'm sure he looks at 20-somethings and finds them attractive. Despite his age he is still a man.

That doesn't mean I'd be afraid to leave my girlfriend alone with him...