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    why im not social

    well, im not perfect, i make mistakes. im not all knowing. as soon as i make a mistake i am the subject of ridicule. so yeah, id prefer to not socialize. i simply do not get any enjoyment out of socializing, even if things go well. i simply do not like people. they all are judgemental and find the need to insult and or ridicule when they see fit. its like socializing is simply people brooding about making false assumptions about each other. utter chaos.
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    I don't even know how to approach this, because you've clearly made up your mind about the world around you. BUT, it really sounds to me like you're seeing world through your own negative emotions. You think people are laughing at you, when they're really laughing with you. You think people are judging you, when they probably don't even notice you. You probably go to parties, and sit there all pissed off looking, and send out a really creepy vibe, which of course garners a few odd looks.

    Honestly, you're the one that's judging people. You're the one that's laughing at people's mistakes to make yourself feel better and superior. Then you make the mistake of assuming everyone else around you has the same thought process. They don't.

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    and your telling us this cause???
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    Quote Originally Posted by ridden123 View Post
    well, im not perfect, i make mistakes. im not all knowing. as soon as i make a mistake i am the subject of ridicule. so yeah, id prefer to not socialize. i simply do not get any enjoyment out of socializing, even if things go well. i simply do not like people. they all are judgemental and find the need to insult and or ridicule when they see fit. its like socializing is simply people brooding about making false assumptions about each other. utter chaos.
    ya your right. People will be judgmental no matter what. Let them judge til their hearts content. But you need to make something positive out of it. If you survive the negatives of something, whats stopping you from surviving the positives?

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    Isnt this the love forum?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ridden123 View Post
    well, im not perfect, i make mistakes. im not all knowing. as soon as i make a mistake i am the subject of ridicule. so yeah, id prefer to not socialize. i simply do not get any enjoyment out of socializing, even if things go well. i simply do not like people. they all are judgemental and find the need to insult and or ridicule when they see fit. its like socializing is simply people brooding about making false assumptions about each other. utter chaos.
    i agree with you but for a different reason.

    I dont like people because all the want is to go into your life and mess up your perfertly good life and leave you alone to deal with the after math
    keep it simple

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    Just imagine how judgmental you're being by lumping everyone into the same category. You certainly aren't going to make any friends if you continue to mis-label everyone as "suck". Get off your high horse and learn to laugh at yourself.

    I had an ex who was interested in "water sports" in highschool. I wound up sharing this isolated incident with all of my friends. 10 years later, this story still resurfaces. And it is still funny.

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    through all your posts you sound like you got some issues bud.. do yourself a favour and go see someone, get some help. It can't hurt with that attitude?

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    First and foremost, he needs to get a girlfriend with blonde hair and blue eyes.

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    Why an Aryan?

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    Quote Originally Posted by lilly1185 View Post
    Why an Aryan?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ridden123 View Post
    well, im not perfect, i make mistakes. im not all knowing. as soon as i make a mistake i am the subject of ridicule. so yeah, id prefer to not socialize. i simply do not get any enjoyment out of socializing, even if things go well. i simply do not like people. they all are judgemental and find the need to insult and or ridicule when they see fit. its like socializing is simply people brooding about making false assumptions about each other. utter chaos.

    Poor you. If you only knew how much fun it can be to insult and ridicule others in the company of like-minded judgmental people up to their necks in false assumptions, you'd be as social as can be.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch View Post
    Poor you. If you only knew how much fun it can be to insult and ridicule others in the company of like-minded judgmental people up to their necks in false assumptions, you'd be as social as can be.

    heehee that's fun. you don't know what you're missing.

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